Essays
Changes in my life towards embodying new paradigm of sacred living
Written and published on April 20, 2019 I would like to share with you the changes that have matured in me that I see as being the expression of a larger whole. This year [...]
Sacred slut
For hundreds of years, harmful philosophies and systems have enslaved our body-minds. These degenerated times have resulted in all sorts of detachments. Disconnection runs throughout our lives The first disconnection is created by unloving [...]
Ending the gender war and creating real community
There’s great wounding and resentment between men and women. It’s a vicious circle: who is the first to say sorry? Both sides feel hurt and wounded. Both sides demand respect. We stand in front [...]
Courage to Die Together – what new tantra men can learn from traditional path of Tantra
I see how Tantra grows in the West when it is mixed with mainly shamanism and some therapy work. It definitely contributes to grow a more conscious and intimate life. It helps release shame [...]
We can do it
Starting from scratch? Lately I was sharing about my transition and the need for sustainable, quiet and deep growth, which I want to support, instead of fire works expectations brought within one week retreats. [...]
Rage of the feminine – Notre Dame Cathedral on Fire
The Feminine is raging, roaring from her fiery all embracing heart and her dark vagina, it is enough! It is correlated with many small awakenings in private lives of people when the last drop [...]
A letter to a man
Dear man, We have been walking upon this Earth in so many different forms and disguises. We have also probably met as priestesses in many temples throughout times. Some of these encounters were meaningful. [...]
Men suffer in silence
Have men lost their train to evolution? Let’s start with some provocation to stir up some thoughts. Already for some time we are on the break of a new era. Many women have seized [...]
What can women do for men?
We are living currently in the period of “me too” campaign that can easily slip into dualistic opposition of “poor” women against “bad” men. Herewith acknowledging all wounding done to women, I would like to ask [...]
Mistrust to the feminine – wound of patriarchy
We all have been silently growing into the big wound of patriarchy - mistrust to the feminine. It has nothing to do with our gender. I find it as often with women as with [...]
Navigating through the unknown
The unknown was the domain of mystics for millennia. Though now the time has come when we as individuals and as a human collective are invited to make friends with it. Maybe even we [...]
Dragons back on Gaya
Power in patriarchy Often when we think about power, it is a patriarchal abuse of power that is displayed in our mind. Power from this perspective means power over people, the Earth, women, resources, [...]
Getting out of the box
Becoming a free flow of consciousness instead of clinging to one or few identities. It gives the REAL freedom. We are used to think of ourselves one or the other way, usually through the [...]
What does a Dragoness eat?
When we've been to Ibiza we've found a Dragoness lair, or rather she found us, a magical secluded place full of stone eggs of different sizes. A dragoness vagina, birth canal and all these [...]
Sacred Union; A Resolution to War
Integrated inner sacred union is a resolution to a war. It is a real and the only peace. Peace that embraces both life and death. There is a huge cumulated resentment and wound between [...]